How To Get Rid Of Stalkers?

Being stalked may be one of the most frightening situations a person can be in. Even thinking or believing that we are being stalked will add a lot of stress to an otherwise peaceful life. Consequently, finding ways to successfully end stalking can be one of the most important things in life.

The techniques for getting rid of stalkers will be different of course when the stalker is a live person who actually follows a person around or makes unwanted contact, or when the person is one of the cyber-stalkers that have come onto the scene with the growth of the World Wide Web.

The first thing to do when you believe that you are the victim of a stalker is – tell someone else about it. This will provide emotional and mental support, in addition to adding someone who can also watch for the stalker and support you when you follow-up with law enforcement and the courts. After taking that initial step, it will be very important to try and remain anonymous as much as possible without completing changing your lifestyle. It is important to carry on with the necessary activities of life, for yourself and to show the stalker that you are not intimidated.

StalkerA majority of people carry a cell phone today. If you believe you are being stalked, make sure your cell phone is always with you and always ready to be used. This number should never be given to anyone outside of family and close friends who should have the number already.

As you make your way through the day, learn about places and times that might be potentially dangerous. Stalkers are usually very smart and plan carefully when they want to make contact with the victim. Remember that most stalkers have a high opinion of themselves and don’t feel they are wrong in what they do. This is often due to the obsession, which clouds their judgment. You may want to consider getting a medium-size or large dog that can be your constant companion. This will help deter a potential stalker.

One of the keys to successfully getting rid of a stalker is to make sure that you don’t give them the attention they are seeking. This means that you should not respond to their advances in “live” situations and should not respond to phone and email messages. This is very important because one of the goals of a stalker is to get your attention. If you respond they will feel they have made a successful first step.

When you talk to a psychologist or other counselor about a stalker, ask about the different types of stalkers that professionals have identified. Some stalkers are obsessed with an individual. This occurs quite often as men obsess about a particular woman. There are some who are seriously deluded and should be receiving professional psychiatric help. Others may be seeking revenge, which can happen with a former employee. Whatever the situation, it is never a good idea to completely ignore a stalking situation. Share it with family and close friends, but never with the stalker.

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5 Comments on “How To Get Rid Of Stalkers?”


Quincy ampbell wrote:

This really relates to my life. My girlfriend stalks me a lot. She knows my mom, dad, house, and auntie’s number and we haven’t even been talking for a month. I tell you, people are getting crazier by the day. It is not a god feeling to get stalked. She feels she is not doing anything wrong.

Deci Jaques wrote:

What else can I you do if the stalker has already established contact/ or some sort of verbal rapport with its victim?
NB he has infiltrated my email address, home, cell phone numbers already without me knowing but mainly he has tried to talk to her telepathically.
Apart from reporting this to the police, recording everything he does and says to you. This will take a lot of time up which I don’t have. NB this is in the UK.

liz wrote:

Always phone the police, phone them about every incident however small. Insist the police to do something. If they don’t, complain some times, you have to battle with busy police who don’t want to spend all day with your stalker.

C wrote:

I am being stalked by this weirdo, I don’t know.He is coming to my house now. I found out he is a cop at Univ Penn. I am really creeped out ,! I did nothing to encourage this and even worse he stalks me with my child present. I stopped going to this library where it happened and a supermarket near there for a month.Because he followed us home.Now I went to that supermarket and he followed us and then followed us again home. He woke me up this morning shining his car lights in my window.I hate him! He is a stranger! What he’s doing is Sick!

Aaron wrote:

I am being stalked and it is a nightmare. I already have a restraining order but he has ignored this and has continued to ignore this and has continued to harass threaten me my friends family etc.. He has already physically assaulted me. The police are telling me there is nothing I can do because emails text messages and calls can come from spoof numbers. What can I do to rid my stalker? Sincerely pissed off and annoyed.

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